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|I know some teens and young ppl who calls their mom '*****'-Slut''****" etc.Are you also one of them?|
I know some teens and young ppl who calls their mom '*****'-Slut''****" etc.Are you also one of them?
|Unlike other "teens" I call my mom, simply mom. I do have one friend(a boy) who calls his mom horrible names like those ones, because she cheated on his dad and he feels anger towards her. Most of my friends call their parents by their 1st names which I think is so strange. I've never called my mom or anyone I love one of those words, and I don't plan to.|
|Help me start a podcast?|
Im starting a Podcast,
I have Garage Band, I already know how to make one,
but the thing is I have no clue what to talk about.
My audience is mostly targeted to "teen" listeners,
and the name of the show is "Mexi.****"
Also, can I email some artists so I can use their songs on my podcast?
|On the topic of what type of podcast you could do it depends upon your interests. I find it much easier to do a podcast about things your interested in. And also directed at a teen audience I would suggest topics such as comedy, pop culture, video games, trends, and all around cool stuff. |
As for emailing artists, I would give it a shot. There's a lot of royalty-free stuff out there too,. (Which I have spent much time finding.) A few of my favorite links for royalty-free or creative commons-liscensed musuic are as follows: www.incompetech.com/m/c/royalty-f… This next one you will have to sort through becuase some of the stuff you can use and some of it you can't. www.soundclick.com/default.cfm?pa… and this is a good one too if I'm correct www.voices.com/resources/talents/…
Well I hope this all helps!
|Trouble at home, can't stand itttttt :( help?|
Im a 15 year old girl.
Okay so im having trouble at home with my parents. About years back i started noticing that they were fighting a lot. More than the normal parents would. I would see my dad hit my mom, not too hard, but it still scared me. One time i finally got in his face about it, starting yelling at him, and he hit me. Ever since then they have been more secretive about the fighting. My dad tells me things like "your a fu**ing mess " and "what the hell are you doing here " when im just around home. My mom had tried to talk to him but he doesn't stop. She feels really bad for me, and i don't like to see her hurting. She tries talking to me but i don't really like talking to her. I do the average teen screw ups..ive smoked weed once last summer, never since, nor will i. I drink occasionally, but i never get hammered drunk, and i do it in the right places. Eventually i started cutting myself, and after that i started becoming what i guess you could call "emo". I wear a lot more eyeliner, dyed my hair black, started dressing that way, and started hanging out with the same kind of people...I started not caring when people call me a **** or a ***** or a slut (which im not, i just have enemies like everyone else) I started getting a lot more secretive. I didn't gossip much, i don't talk to my parents; when they hug me i just stand there, and when they say i love you, i never say it back. I tried killing myself once, i wont give details, but someone saved me. I felt so selfish and guilty. My parents don't know about that. Nor will they ever. I haven't had any thought about doing it again, and that over a year ago that happend. I only have ever had three people who knew about the cutting. They were the best secret keepers i knew, and have kept all my secrets. My mom started thinking i was depressed, and signed me up with some counselling, which didnt go well. I walked out after 20 mins, and ran away for the day. I run away occasionaly, but only for the day now. Most ever is three days.
One day my mom walked into my room while i was changing and saw some of the cuts. She called a help center, they checked me into 's hospital in some rehab program. All i got was my guitar and a lap top. No pens, pencils, forks, not even plastic knifes were allowed in the room i was in. I had to go to counselling while i was there, but i didnt talk much. I walked out on the first two. I just sat there and looked at the ceiling while they poked and proded, trying to get me to talk. I hated it so much there i could have hanged myself with my guitar strap (not really, i just hated it a lot). i got out and my parents were nice for all of three days. I stopped cutting for about 5 days, then i started again. Because then I controlled who hurt me. I cut less often though. I haven't for about 5 weeks now. I've stopped. Im not depressed or anything, im actually really happy. Just not around my parents. But about 3 days ago, i was cutting an apple. My mom was sitting at the island reading, kinda watching me with the knife though, as always. I just started looking at the knife, thinking about cutting. But i knew better and dropped the knife, which accidentally landed on my foot and i got two stitches...accident, I swear. But my mom didnt let me go to school the next day, i had to go see my doctor who gave me sleep medicine cause im not sleeping, or apparently i say stuff, and am restless in my sleep. I dont take them, i just hold them under my tongue untill my mom leaves, then spit the pill out. I sleep fine, and im not depressed. im not in denial either !! Now i have to go see a psychaiatrist, an teen metalist, and more counsellors, which won't go over well. I don't talk to people, i have two great friend i talk to, no adults. There's about 4 adults that i can stand, parents aren't any of them. Im not depressed though, i just hate my home life. I wish my parents would just ignore me. It doesn't help to talk. I tried talking to my mom once, and she tried fixing everything. I told her not to and she got all paranoid about my life, and started questioning my life, asking about my friends and about my school life. home and school are two seperates, never to mix. Im leaving after graduation. I just can't stand it. I want to leave. I want to get away. I need to, or im going to crack.
|sounds like your home life sucks pretty bad. theres not much you can do about that, but deal with it and tough it out. what you can do is save your own future. dont let your parents problems effect you. just becasue their **** is ****** up dont let yourself get like that once you're their age. what i mean is dont **** around in school. if youre 15 your prob a freshman or sophomore, so focus on that more, hang around with a better crew, and you should get happier. |
good you hear you got off that cutting ****, cause thats pretty messed up. were kind of similar in a way, like i cut once, but i used to smoke weed almost as much as you used to cut, but have stopped recently. i cant say i can relate to the home life thing, but i know what its like to have bad habits.
anyways, i guess what im gettin at is you cant give a **** about what your parents are doing between themselves. focus on you, and your life cause you only life once
|What would you do in this situation?|
I think it's a problem when most of my questions on here tend to be about my mom. She's horrible...I have my permit so I'm stuck driving with her and sometimes when she tells me what to do, I think I'm doing the right thing and then she yells at me and hits me (while I'm driving). One day she'll tell me one thing and to do it because it's right and then I'll do it the next time and she yells at me and hits me. She has a habit of doing that and then she rants on about how much she hates me, and that I'm a stupid **** (c- word) and that I'm not smart and how much she hates being a mom and how she can't wait until I go to college because then she won't have to deal with me. I'm still learning how to drive but she makes me not want to drive because I don't know what to expect. I've talked to counselors about my problem with my mom, but no one does anything to help. Yes, I'm young and I'll still make mistakes, but she makes me feel like I have to be some super- teen and then she'll be happy with me. I know I'm not dumb, but it doesn't make what she says any less hurtful...I guess what I want to know is how someone would deal with this if they had to?
|You absolutely need to find someone that you trust and can talk to about this. The counselors are not just there to flap their jaws they are supposed to figure a way to help you. Talk to the principle|
and tell him that you have talked with the counselors and that's as far as they go just all talk and no
action. Good luck.
|Please help me with these thoughts about my sexuality, am I gay?|
Recently I have been wandering about my sexual orientation. I am very confused about it all and would like some help. I am a 15 year old guy and whilst I am very attracted to women – their smell, their breasts, the idea of pleasuring one is a great turn on too – I sometimes find myself wandering about whether or not I am gay… I have tried the whole ‘let your penis decide’ approach, but it seems rather unreliable as it goes up and down more than a yoyo. However most of the time looking at a guy sexually makes me feel anxious and uncomfortable and not turned on really. Sometimes however the idea of giving a guy a handjob sparks a bit of a reaction but I generally have my own penis in mind at the time so that’s probably not very accurate as my mind associates that image with sexual time.
I have spoken to my Mum about it and she tells me she had a very similar experience when she was younger, and in time it all blew over. I don’t know really how much this anxiety has to do with my sexuality, especially as it’s gotten worse since I have had some ‘family issues’ which have been rather stressful. Another thought that’s troubling is the idea of a guy with a six pack. I kind of have the temptation to touch one, but I don’t particularly feel aroused… not how I feel about girls torsos anyway! ;-). It’s more of a, ‘wish I was him’, rather than ‘want to be with him’ if that makes sense? Of course I know it’s a confusing age, any experience from your teen years would be much appreciated reader. I don’t know, it’s really hard to tell as I am so sexually charged all the time… It’s hard though, because though it seems obvious that I am just a typical heterosexual teenager who’s mind’s wondering, I read so much about ‘closeted homosexuals’ and ‘repressed sexuality’ and start wandering if that’s what I am, as the homosexual part would explain my mild sexual interest in guys, but the repression part would explain why it’s only mild compared to how I feel about women.
For any gay people reading this, don’t think I am for some bigoted, small minded, self obsessed ****. The idea of being gay isn’t repelling to me because I myself am socially intolerant of them (my best friend is bisexual and he’s the funniest, nicest guy I know), I don’t know why I feel so repelled by the idea… maybe someone could shed light on that part? Also please don’t simply say ‘experiment’ because that idea makes me feel very uncomfortable… I literally felt scarred after watching a gay porn video to monitor the reaction from ‘down under’ (which was negative, but maybe because I feel so anxious and uncomfortable about the topic I am unable to get a reaction from gay images?). I over think I know… and over write… By the way I have a girlfriend and I love making out with her, and I can’t keep my hand out of her bra when we do so. That makes the whole thing more worrying as I have heterosexual experience, albeit not very much of it though! One last thing: I saw a guy the other day and he was the typically cool attractive guy, and I was ind of drawn to looking at him, but it was in a ‘I wish I had his hair and looks’ kind of way because then I could attract this girl who I spent years drooling over! But then my mind kind of took it in the wrong way and I started trying to imagine myself with my arm around him and kissing him… it made me feel really anxious and it gave me a weird feeling in my penis (not a sexual one though). Is it possible to manifest feelings in parts of your body when you’re so anxious and monitoring the reaction so obsessively? I know sometimes people can think they have pains related to illnesses if they obsess enough. Also when I imagine being with a girl in a relationship (I don’t see my girlfriend a lot so I have to imagine!) it feels right and gives me a warm feeling. When I try to imagine the same with a guy it just once again makes me feel anxious and uncomfortable.
Thanks for taking the time to read, please help shed as much light on the situation as you can.
|Well, i am a girl and what i think is that everyone is bisexual in some sort of way. girls kiss girls all the time. i don't really think ANYONE is straight because everyone eventually fantasizes about the opposite sex. its is nothing to worry about. i am 14 and i know what you mean because our minds are always curious so dont lose sleep over it, it is VERY normal.|
|Verbally abused at school?|
I've been verbally abused and bullied at school since I can remember. I just graduated the 8th grade, and the bullying is so bad, I don't want to go back. Every flaw I have someone has to pick on me about it, and during the summer they do it over the computer, calling me a fat **** with no life, etc. I just can't take it anymore. I'm not your average "teen", I love my animals, my life revolves around them, and I get pretty good grade, A's and B's and once a C. But I've been called every name in the book, and I've been bullied through elementary school, all of middle school, and I know it will be worse next year in High School. I've talked to my parents about home schooling, but they just tell me to get over it, it's no big deal. I have extremely low self esteem and confidence. I don't feel comfortable being in school or being around people. I just don't know what to do, I don't want to end up like some of the who committed suicide because of bullies. Please help.
|You might want to start by setting up a few 'dummy accounts' on line so that you should be able to surf the Internet in peace. And when these are bullying you on the Internet, make sure you print out a copy of the correspondence as you might need it as evidence later on.|
All teachers are trained to watch for bullying in school and must put a stop to it when they see it happening. Your best defense is to start telling everyone who will listen to you about these . Make an appointment with your previous school counselor or try to find out who your next counselor will be. This person may be able to talk with the principal and give him/her the 'heads up' on the situation.
These like to pick on people like yourself, who have a low self esteem because in reality, they have no self esteem either and the only way to boost their importance is to put down someone else. You need to let these know that you simply won't tolerate this kind of behavior anymore. Good luck.
The source below is a listing of alternative schools throughout the United States.
|Will you guys do me a favor, please...and listen to this story?|
My daddy. Yep, thats something he'll always be. No matter how much I hate him or how much he hurts me or even how much he brings me down. He's the reason for everything wrong in my life. He's the reason I have so many problems and unknown secrets that no one will ever find out.
It all started ever since I was born. The older I got...the worst he got. The younger I was...the better he was. But as we know, we grow older everyday...so this condition (I like to characterize my relationship with my dad like this) only worsens.
Just recently, my dad told me to get a job. I live in the middle of freakin Kentucky, where job and employment opprotunities are non-existent. (Another reason why I hate my dad---'cause he made me live in this hellhole.) Finally! Thank God! I found a job! It's a nice waitressing job at a friendly, little Mexican resturant in town. But ohhh-and-behold! They just sooo happen to sell liquor! "But daddy, they don't let the teenagers work the bar, I mean...it is against the law. And of course a public resturant has to abide by the rules to function."
"SHUT UP YOU DUMB ****. YOU AINT WORKIN' THERE, AND THATS IT!" (Okay, maybe that phrase is a little bit of exaggeration...but I think you get my point here.)
So this leaves you with the thought of "WTF is wrong with this man?"
Okay readers....I think it's only plausible for me to explain exactly "what's up." He's a preacher....he's a VERY VERY VERY VERY religious person. With a holier--than-thou mentality, a very judgemental soul...and a scorner of anyone who believes differently than him.
Thank God, I haven't been brain-washed with the filth that he has tried to ingrain in me. Allll these years, I had to put up with him. But finally, in a couple of years I'll be 18! And free from his unnecassary, violent reins.
I could go on, and on and on and on. I could go deeper and totally expose this man for what he is. But I'll leave it at this for now.
I came to realize that aren't always "the spitting image of their parents."
So , teens, adults...whichever---you can be different. You can live your life the way YOU WANT TO. NOT HOW HE OR SHE WANTS YOU TO LIVE IT.
Be yourself. Be you. Make a change. Save the world. Plant a tree. Get a pet monkey. Do whatever....but most importantly--realize you are in control of your destiny. You only get one life...so make the most of it.
Mmmkay, thanks! <3
|wut was the point in this?|
|Why does my so called dad hate me?|
My dad who is 50 hates me alot, he always wants me to be self-centred, selfish, obscure, malicious, rude and mean to others, he says that these are the qualities of a 'true' man and if im too soft, nice, caring, loving and sweet to my loved ones, i am not a 'male', but a pussy and a wimp! actually, he wants me to be like this, but he knows he can't change me, the thing is...when he was young, used to make fun of him cuz he was fat, and after bein ridiculed, he used to cry in an empty class and when his brothers used to see him, he used to hush em up and beg them to not tell mommy or he'd be the laughing stock of the entire family, and well...he couldn't have his revenge on those cuz they left university wayy before he did[they got out with double-promotions], and well, eversince he has been out for revenge, searching for those teens/ now as adults, he tries anything and everything to find them, but alas...he's hopeless..and has failed countless times, once he even screamed at me for no reason when he came back from a flight, i was changing the password to my pc as his pc wasn't workin, so he wanted to use mine to check somethin, but then he was like 'do i look like a thief who'll see your password and hack into it?!' and then he showed me the evil eye and then he yelled at me, called me a wimp, ******, ****-face, pussy, slapper, ****-face, soft-*** puss face and countless other things, and then my mom [who LIKE, ACTUALLY CARES in REAL] came back home without knowin anything while i was cryin in the bathroom of the room which is upstairs, then she called my name and then she came to check up and she found me crying with a knife and two scissors in my hand, i was cryin like, so really badly that i just gulped and cried profusely, but then i told my mama and then she asked him what happened, and then he did say anything, and said' what did i say? i didn't say anything, and then i called him a liar and shouted at him, and then he was like, 'oh shut up' and then i was like IHATE YOU and then he was like, goin downstairs and then i threw all my hate at him by yelling at the top of my voice, callin him all sorts of abusive words i could like, think of at that time, my head was spinnin, my heart was poundin and racing faster and faster as each minute passed, and then he started cryin like a baby and then he's like 'WHAT DID I SAY TO YOU? I DIDN'T EVEN DO ANYTHING, WHY IS THE WORLD AFTER ME ALL THE TIME?! and then i was like, THIS WORLD DOESN'T REVOLVE around you, this world is for everyone, good and bad, cuz GOD knows what's best for humans, we live to love the people in our life but he just wouldn't listen, and copied my words and threw em back at me, and this happened when i was only 4 years old, since then ive hated him and ever since then ive been living with him, only hanging on to a threadline with my mom, bro and sisters, im so totally troubled here, oh and yeah, his mom and everyone else on his side of the family hate me alot...they say ive lost my manhood..
|You're actually a true man not your father.Your father and his family must have came from bad background,drunk,or doing some secret plan on u or something?|
He maybe not well educated and his parents are like him and teach wrong stuff then its keeps on and on and on and grand is like him.
Thats good u r not like him but your mom.If u hate him just ignore him and dont gave respect to your father and his family.
Only respect your family members who takes cares of you like your mum....;-)
|Is it Verbal Abuse? Help please. ?|
Ok so im not your 'Straight A, outgoing, study till 5am' person. I do get into trouble sometimes(just small stuff like skipping school and arguing with sister) and I do have a big mouth on me when it comes to family. Anyway back to the point, my parents are constantly calling me: ****(a favorite),Lazy, Fat, Retarded,Loser is their favorite, autistic. They also tell me things like im going to end up in jail and that I need medication. Normally I wouldn't care but its my parents! Their habits are passed to my little sister who calls me the same things along with every other curse. They're complete hipocrits too because they did WAYYY worse then me when they were teens(like stealing cars and drugs) don't ask how I know that. Its really brought my self esteem to below zero and its made me over sensitive. I can't help but cry everytime im called a name even though im so used to it. Im 16 and this has been going on since elementary school.
These words really make me feel like im worth nothing and that im a waste of a person because im always being told that ill never make it in life. I have nobody to talk to on top of that. Help?
|I,m sorry your so called parents treat you with no respect. They should be ashamed of them shelves. And what is even worse is doing this around your younger sister,they know better than that. They would not like it if someone did them that way. My best advice is to pray about it,ask Gods favor in helping you gain the strength to overcome this horrible abuse. Then pick yourself up and get on with your life. Chances are if they have been doing this since you were a small they will keep on doing it,what you need to do is prove yourself too them once and for all. I was done the same way when I was young by my family members, it hurt like hell but I left them all in the dust after highschool. I joined the military and left my hometown and never looked back. The military breaks you down and then builds you back up. I was in the Air Force,it is the best branch to go with. My self-esteem changed slowly and it was the best thing that ever happened to me. You will get a pay check every two weeks,and free dorm room,three free meals a day,and a lifelong career if you work for it.You just have to put up with some people screaming at you for about a month and a half. You can do it,I know you can,and on top of that it will help you lose weight and feel good about yourself for the first time in your life. Good luck I hope everything works out for you in the end.|