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 Were you denied medical treatment or diagnosis while you were ill , waiting for medicare to kick in, and did?BILLS FROM drs BUT DENIED treatment. very ltd income.. Lost career R/T age,. no health ins., became ill. Not posted AT BORDER as essential to live here. If one arm a hands length LONGER , would it be a broke shoulder or clavicle. dislocated?. Feel PRESSURE on that side of neck/ Chronic pain, weird breathing,. like bellows that won't stop deflating, forced inhalation, depending on fatigue,,severe spasms.To ER over/\over, numerous X Rays, private doctors, no assistance/ Much fighting over mer yrs by various abusers RE potential $from malpractice, payoffs to abusers,thieves,, same here. prefer let me get really sick, get more. No legal rep,. Benefit? ROFL. Daumer principle stalked all over, denied work forced back to victimizers. suddenly no sweating. Numb toes on bottom Cholesterol high. BP is high. in family, with BS problems. Much threats & intimidation if I say anything. I never drove drunk in my life, do not get dizzy from blood sugar, fine motor coordination is fine. Much intimidation/ harassment from young people of school age. Much insults, I am taking up their 02/. Not my gr or . Can't wait for me to die. If make me a nut case, will pay drs more?.. Actually went to reduced fee clinic, med orders, tests in hand. Would not do. Wanted under mental.No. My problems not mental. Employers must hire a certain no,of people with some ..issue,whether race, disability, etc., to be non discriminating. NO.. Much abuse RE past employment. What is so special about them, or their parents that they got a job? I did not see it. However they got the job, they got a break., regardless.. Doctors, lawyers, teachers & friends of their get jobs/ Does anyone holler they received sp. treatment.Of course not.Are full blooded African Americans or Native Americans, Hispanics required to wear a bag over their heads or send a proxy in. I was hired for a job here, PT,, someone tried to kill me over it. I did not hire myself or claim any sort of "special status" ,did not determine my credentials, hire OR PAY SELF. HETERO. This 3rd time, battered on State job after employed. Someone getting$ off me?.Competitive testing. No COPIES OF TESTS Never wanted state emp. Very ill. forced early retire, low income..Worked FOR $, comfort.. life.food, shelter, near poverty, far below, since div Trying to work since l7 , much abuse/ violence trying to work. Attacked x 4, , physically, trying to work,working, trying to get employment. One abduction &, injury coming frominterview. Now trying to take my money? Young punks, smart alec's, when I worked ffor my education, which was &real, fairly earned The academics were not the hard part. Now that I am ill, unable to work, I am being persecuted. Do not want me to leave the house. Harassed out of church. Denied privacy. Forced defensiveness. . Continuous strange intruders spying, harassing, thievery upon leaving apt. I could handle fearof attack, but. being forced to stay all the time is criminal. Punished here. Not to get out unless working? . Now, I hate them so much. If I could have gotten out as I pleased, would not be sick. Am lawabiding. Disability does not mean unable to get out of apt.Not on disability. Much prejudice toward srs & newcomers, victimization.. Much prejudice & abuse from health care. Did remove appendix. Helped in one way. Now much sicker. . One dr. Said "I would not touch you," did not.I strongly suspect bone broken in hosp by person who hated me.Pretending young people fighting over him. I to chase? Or was this case of psycho thinking he was famous or infamous? I did not know him.Either way, he can go to blazes. I think something else happened inhospital. I am in a strange situation where a truly psycho, thinks I need punishing, masochistic. Liar. sublimated on me. . Been through this before.. I am being given the "bums" rush, in more ways than one to early grave, Needs to find a willing vic$\$ exchanged hands in past by violent malpractice & negligence on me, pay offs to agencies individuals.. I am innocent of all wrong doing. no help forthcoming, s placed under prison w.o. walls, isolation, forced, until statutes pass, denied legal rep. and I saw NOTHING from any of this but abuse THEN THREATENED, blackmailed, bullied, INTIMIDATED. yES. mY mOM WAS A MINORITy. Then I come here, where I think there will be no prejudice, they .hate me . REFLECTs HIS PREJUDICE. No perfect grammar here.. . Much spite wE.. I never made race issue, a boss did, where attacked x 2.HATED ME. These people hate me for being the victim. as always Never one iota of sympathy for ME, as always., I resent doing their undoing. Now sick. Want me to work. Made me unable to perspire? Burning hot. already was warm.Throw 64 yr old F into cold? . Homeless after divorce, BILLS FORCED ON ME, RUN UP PAYING OFF THE PERPS, creating lawsuits, paying off perpetators. No A smile to you looken at an answer TO THIS POST:) Remember Dru? Bless her heart,she was classic on the "rant" "I am in a strange situation where a truly psycho"--still rofl My straight guy friend is supposedly straight? Heres?So I went to middle school with this guy with the alias name of G, and we first met in 7th grade, and we kinda got to know each other and at the end of the year we had an end of the year camping trip with the whole seventh grade class. I asked him if i could join his tent and he said yes i could. So when it finally comes to the end of the night, we get ready to sleep (their are like 4 other guys in the tent too). So all of us in the tent have decided that we didnt want to use our pillows so we used G to lay down on. Coincidentally (since its so dark) i happen to lay down on his private area. A few minutes later that night I feels G's hand on my face and he starts thrusting my head with his hand against his genitals ( all while clothes are on). After the trip hes acts a little different and he begins to be kind of mean to me. Now this was all in seventh grade, and i have came across him 6 months ago now that we are both 18 years old. I found him on facebook, and we have exchanged numbers and so forth. Since than we have become really good friends, at first i thought he was straight until i though otherwise. Since the exchanging of number on facebook, we actually had no clue about eachother. Sooner than later i got him a job where i worked at. And we began to work with eachother alot. I would always get the feeling he liked me, we would always be close together, working close our bodies touching. And we would always catch eacother looking at eachother. We would always laugh together. He was the one that always initiated text. And it was very odd because he would sent me them late at night at 11 or even 12 in the morning asking "what up" or " wake up" idk if any straight guy would do that. And i even told him i was gay the first thing we started to talking and he said hes really cool with it and doesnt care. As time went on I grew feeling for him, he isnt the most attractive guy, and my friends say it. But i didnt care at the time because i knew that we clicked. And after gaining feelings for him i couldnt take it and told him i liked him. He took it lightly as he pretended to be straight and said he doesnt care and he wants to be best friends still. But after telling him he has treated me different. He doesnt even text me or wants to hang out, and treats me like garbage. He plays mind games with me, and he used to never flake when we hung out before i told him i liked him, but now he does. And when i get mad about it, he says i overeact. I loved him at the time but not that chapter is over...i just want to know are my suspensions seems false or are they valid enough to question his sexuality, my philosophy as a gay male, I dont chase after hetero guys, I just would like to feel better if he was gay, and i did fall for a gay person to say the least........ maybe he was bisexual.. what was happened with you last time might be the result that he just dreaming. unconsciously get rid your face to his genitals. maybe he was just treating you as a friend that is why he is already awkward with the bonding between you ad him when you tell the truth How does a person stop others from trying to live their lives through them?I have had a problem with this all my life. I have worked so very very hard to have a career, to have my own life, to be autonomous, to have boundaries and privacy. I try to share enough so that I am not misunderstood but to retain my rights to be myself. I like my privacy.In spite of appearances, I do. I was not an unhappy , did not feel sorry for myself as a or teenager. I married because Iwanted to, I loved the guy. We went our separate ways. I wanted to remarry. Someone went to great lengths to stop it. It seems to me 1. People really are cruel, and heartless. That is a fact, many are, and it is a dog eat dog world if you are a dog. I am not. 2. People assume they know what is best for you, what you need, and take control with your fighting tooth and nail. Tell you what you should want, should do. Assertiveness training does no good in the face of these dictators or psychos. Hard to tell the difference, if there is a difference. It is not that I am dumb.That was never the problem. It is not that I am not a capable person, and cannot stand up for myself. Usually, it is because someone sees a chance to make a fast buck.It is because people have done things and don't want me around others because they are afraid I will talk about them. I have better things to do with my life. If I do what I want only my and I benefit. legal assistance is not, and never was available even when I obviously had cause for lawsuits. It is not due to my crashing, being alcoholic, or mentally ill or incompetent. It is not due to my being unable to manage my life. It is not due to any of that. I had many years left where I could have done what I wished, and it was taken over, ripped off. I killed no one. Am not a criminal of any sort. I am not a dictator. Not domineering, I am hetero, normal female. Look worse than I ever looked, but did not until recent years.Now, I am older. I think most people on this site are young. Listen up and learn. Pick your battles very carefully. Now, it is hurry up and die. Get on down the road. It is people. claiming to be Christians. I am not even able to go to church. I have been harassed and propositioned in church. Here, life is for the young only and they do not seem to be very moral while pretending to be ultra moral.I have no where to go. I have no familyh I am close to but my . I would rather be dead than have to return to where I came, or live with relatives or be controlled by them. They have their lives, I have mine. My living is no threat to them, but it seems like it is a threat to someone. I am a Christian. They have smeared and slandered me, accused me of being a guy for wanting to have a career. Called me gay, or bi. I am not. Called me worse. I could write a book on sexual harassment. I have been subjected to filth on the job you would not believe, and do not tell me that is normal. I have been hired for the purpose of trying to get lawsuits and they sabotaged my work. Still I have no rights as an employee. Have barred me from working in a hospital, where I needed to work, because of their inferences, and because THEY KNOW what I need. They know what is best for me. They know all, are all knowing, all wise, omnipotent. It is Christian women and male batterer enablers. My husband never hit me. . I do not hate men at all. I would love to be in love and marry. I am celibate and intend to stay so until marriage, which is out because I will not marry until I have freedom of choiceTHEY SEEM TO THINK on the one hand if I married I would forget this nonsense about working, on the other hand they do everything they can to prevent it. I am not a prostitute, and never was, not an illegal drug user. Please no smart alec answers. If you can think of some useful bit of info, please tell me. Forget mental health. For me, it is a lost cause all I saw were trash and creeps who exploited me more to protect their employers and I ended up out in the street, homeless without a career. My lost out too. It is not that we are "dumb."I really am unable to work now. I have serious health problems, and I have no health insurance. I have very little income. If I tryto work my health is going to deteriorate. Young people, what do older people do on the job that makes you want to knock them off? I was never the enemy. I am in such a mess, that all I can reallyh do is die. I can't work due to my health. If I could work, I would be fired right away due to creditors. I ws lured, enticed up here on promise of work, then all my cash and credit was used to live while I desperately tried to get work in my career, then anything. There is no possibility, was no possibility of returning. Never. My credit was ruined. No possibility of furthering my education, which was my main hope here. I required a hospital job to do that. I came here, and it was like I ceased to be a human being a person. I had honors in college, rece Your desire to make sense of your suffering reminds me of the weeds that spring up through cracked asphalt, improbable, doomed, beautiful in their own way. May grace find you. Tell me about bankruptcy laws? What changed with the changes?I You will need to read all this to see what was done to me. I am female. Christian, fundamentalist. a ppear very white. Hetero. It is relative. I have it, but it is relative to my problems. I have health problems, but was able to work. I have always had to work at being healthy. Have to keep my weight down. I am talking of me. I do not want to be told how others are, I am me. I need money for diet, health care. I have no no health care. I am not going to proof read or edit this. I am sick to death of someone dragging up lies on me and slandering me with things which were grossly distorted, exaggerated, calling me things which are lies, and harassing and degrading me over things which never happened in the first place. I have been battered four times by strangers due to people lying on me. Going to the state for help, ends up in my being trashed. Always.I have suffered grave injuries at the hands of states discrimination and abuse. I must take medication at times due to the abuse of authorities and discrimination. I have no mental illness that is inborn. I have symp;toms of ptst, due to abuse not by my parents. never filed bankruptcy before, never contemplated it ever seriously. Know nothing, knew nothing. I really did save 10,000 cash when I was younger, no dependents, and pay down on my auto and house, bought new furniture. Had hardly any bills and perfect credit. I then made some more bills, manageable because I had a good paying job. After spending a lot of my savings on the dps and finding I was ripped off, I obtained more credit No problem. I am making good money in a career highly employable. Always have a job. I did then get some cash a couple of times from a creditor. I am working full time. I asked creditors to STOP sending me blank checks, and offers for more credit , I asked this more than once. I run into serious job discrimination. Harassment, slander. I left my long term employer after her asking me to sign lies, saying I did things I did not do. Rec. a major attitude adjustment. Then I lose my three wks vac, all raises, my two weeks sick leave. Cannot get work any where locally. I went to the city to work, told I had the job, told I was doing great, old emp. appears, they even give me a ticket, singled out. My auto crashed into, have to rent an auto. Harassed greatly because I go get my grandson, and we have some fun together while I am off. I used credit. I am getting a great new job which pays twice as much as the old.Go work there, in a rented car. Do great. Great. Then I am told because I do not want to work with someone, I can not transfer to another dept. I can go work in their ltc. I refuse. Take another job. Blah. I ended up deciding to move out of state, sell my home. They ran my ad in paper so that nothing sold. Had to give most of my things away, even furn. I bought new. Paid cash for my furniture, not credit cards. My dps were cash, not credit cards. I have been living on credit. Barely made anything on my home. I called here, talked to nurses on the floor and they said come on. No problem. More than one. I have disposed of my pets, all but what I could mail, and bring in the car. Happy to relocate be near my only dtr. Happy to get the rest of my degree, workin a hospital. Get here. I am losing wt. Gained some due to stress. Have quit smoking. Have problem sleeping off and on. I am happy. Going to gym, looking for church, actually started going to one Different denomination. Cannot go to the old one. Had my name removed from their church. Want a change. On unemployment. Kept my bills pd up for four months. Cannot get work any where. I took a review online before moving here, although it was not required. I took CEUs. I went to seminars. I studied. I was up todate any way. The job I had before was not assisted living. We handled about 30 pts one nurse, doing dressings, IVs, pics, etc., I did that for years, emergencies. The whole bit but for gunshot wounds, or fresh car wrecks. I cannot get work in nursing any where. Nothing, not in clinics nothing. Even worse, I cannot get any other kind of work. I take ACLS Pals, at great expense. I take testing for college hours My brain is working. The ACLS , Pals was like a good BLS except I got to do the airway thingie, put one in. We covered more meds. Open book. I did not use my book for all that. This was expensive, credit. I had to buy some tires. blah blah. Stringing me along, just around the corner, job. Good pay. No work. Finally, my money is gone. Credit gone. Creditors know. they know I am not working. Do not terminate my credit. I cannot get work. I cannot pay my bills. I went to consumer credit. Said a lost cause. My health starts slipping. I did not start smoking. I cannot carry weight. It kills me, and I do not get crabby when I eat right. I began going to gym here. Paid a membership. Harassed at the gym, told to get lost more or less. I was not You have given a lot of information and it is a little difficult to tell exactly what your question is, but I will try. When the bankruptcy law changed in 2005 some new requirements were introduced, most of which sound like they do not apply to your situation. Probably the one that most people have heard about is the "Means Test." Although it is FAR more complicated than this in all its details, basically what it requires is that IF your income is higher than the average income for your household size in your state, then your attorney must perform some additional computations to determine whether you are making enough money to be required to repay at least some of what you owe over the next 5 years. If you are unable to work, this would not apply. I'm sorry that you and the attorney you consulted came to a misunderstanding. That is truly unfortunate. I would urge you to make an appointment with a different bankruptcy attorney (most offer one free or very low cost appointment) to review your financial circumstances and advise you on whether bankruptcy is an option for you, and whether there are other possible options you might want to consider. Consider your meeting with the new attorney to be an interview. You are interviewing the attorney to see whether you feel you will be able to work well with him or her. If the first attorney you consult does not seem to you like a person you can work with comfortably and trust to represent your interests, then interview a 2nd and a 3rd attorney. Keep trying until you find one you feel good about. Why is it ok for some people to talk dirty, insult people otj, and others cannot say anything even in joking?I am a Christian hetero conservative fundamentalist 100 per cent female. . I went to church from about age 7 or 8, for many many years. I am not a prude, I have lived a moral life. I worked in places where people talked so filthy, talked about everything imaginable,, brought up subjects of every sort. Said things very insulting, said terribly insulting things to me from the start,and to each other, for years. I said something after some people had been insulting me for a good while. I joked. I quoted a movie, and not to anyone at all. I really did not know anyone was listening.. I was thoroughly disgusted with something which occurred habitually. What I said was completely benign compared to all the other things said there. Benign. I am not fixated, orally or anally. I have been so grossly slandered and lied on, otj, by people lying on me just for the heck of it. Or, to get a job, a promotion, get me fired to hire a friend. I have no one on my side ever. I do not fit in. Not a sex or beer party person, I do not believe in sex outside marriage. My husband and I were not free to mess around on each others. There are people who know that. I was attacked due to someone twisting something I said on the job,and spreading it, when others said far worse things. I merely asked a question. I had comments made to me such as someone's vibrator is AC DC. Said they would find her all crumbled up with the call light in her mouth. She liked to feel it running down my throat,he can't stay on top. We do that, we talk about it all the time. Someone got things at a five finger discount. SAid they ate mountain oysters. Reached down and ... Actually stood and made movements or something toward a doctor....whatever.. If I had done any of that, or said that, I would have been fired. Know what they would say if I said anything....they would say they were trying to get me to say something, complain. I guess on break, they can talk that way, I was not the boss. But if I said anything, any where, I got it. I was working in a restaurant. We washed our hands and had gloves. I wanted to take a test for the next step up. I asked. Someone brought out a finger cot. She was laughing, there had been a big shift in everything. I said it looks like a little rubber. This was said under my breathe, very quiety, and I worked with this person for yesrs. Nothing else was said. I may hve lost my job over this. Not that I cared. I have been more conservative in my married sex life than a lot of people I know, many. I know people who have worked in professional positions, who lived with people they were not married to, had multiple sexual partners and bragged about it. Seemed to go from one to another. High risk behavior. They actually manipulated, pulled strings, of hatred for me, to get me hired in a high risk env. to harass me to expose me to HIV, same ones who talked so dirty. I turned the job down once. Did not want it. I did not lose my job, or quit due to talking dirty. I am so glad to be out of it, I don't know what to do. They like to shock me, annoy me. I didn't blush. I never ate mountain oysters. None of that is true about me. I have never shoplifted anything in my entire life, any where. I have never said anything like that to anyone. I said my sex life is do unto others as you would have others do unto you, to stop their hitting on me, or putting me down. I asked, do people really do that? Well, before everything else, you HAVE to leave that job and go where there are people like yourself. Why on Earth would you agree to such miserable working conditions.? Frankly, I'd rather be out of work than working in social conditions that you do. And for goodness sakes, start networking..! Use your church. Use the connections there. Ask around. See if they have any leads to a better place of work. Tell your pastor, so he can network for you too. In a nutshell, you are not like the people you work with. many people treat religious persons very badly. They see 'religion' as a threat and a judgement on themselves, because they feel an unconscious finger of guilt is being pointed at them. hence the unfriendly response. Bottom line. Time to move on. In fact, way past the time. Male virgin at age 38?hi ppl! ....just a quick question. I am aged 38, hetero, healthy (except for this dam*ed Asperger's Syndrome diagnosis recently) and I have never had a girlfriend, or had a sexual xperience, or actually seen a naked woman in real life, or kissed someone, or held hands, or been on a date. I have been "rejected" (sometimes nice and sometimes not-so-nice) by about 100-120 women over the last 20 years. They say things like, "You're so sweet, I think of you as a friend", "Oh, I don't think of you THAT way", or "I like you, I just don't LIKE-LIKE you, understand?".......several women have called me a "sociopath", "schizoid", "Dr. Jekyl/Mr. Hyde", "anti-social", "creepy", "A-whole", "idiot", "re-tard", "freak", "Satan", "I hope you die alone!", etc. etc. etc. These days (for about the last year and a half), I spend all day and all night in bed under the covers listening to AM talk radio crying and crying, and frequently wish for some form of cancer. Any suggestions? (BTW, I have been in interpersonal therapy for many years and am taking Wellbutrin, Effexor, and Remeron....have a BA in European Philosophy and French Literary Theory- Poetry, but no job {EFF this economy! lol} hey, does that qualify as what they call a "loser"? I don't quite understand that word. Are there women (of any age over 18) who don't mind dating a complete virgin? Or is that out of the question? -my suggestion is one chop your balls off and die -or go to jail and you won't be a virgin for long -go to an asian massage parlor -watch porn and imagine -get a "love doll" or flashlight - you don't need sex women will always nag but your hand is always there. -pay for it -go gay if you are not picky -there are a couple more but they are illegal Virgin at age 38??? is there a stigma?hi ppl! ....just a quick question. I am aged 38, hetero, healthy (except for this dam*ed Asperger's Syndrome diagnosis recently) and I have never had a girlfriend, or had a sexual xperience, or actually seen a naked woman in real life, or kissed someone, or held hands, or been on a date. I have been "rejected" (sometimes nice and sometimes not-so-nice) by about 100-120 women over the last 20 years. They say things like, "You're so sweet, I think of you as a friend", "Oh, I don't think of you THAT way", or "I like you, I just don't LIKE-LIKE you, understand?".......several women have called me a "sociopath", "schizoid", "Dr. Jekyl/Mr. Hyde", "anti-social", "creepy", "A-whole", "idiot", "re-tard", "freak", "Satan", "I hope you die alone!", etc. etc. etc. These days (for about the last year and a half), I spend all day and all night in bed under the covers listening to AM talk radio crying and crying, and frequently wish for some form of cancer. Any suggestions? (BTW, I have been in interpersonal therapy for many years and am taking Wellbutrin, Effexor, and Remeron....have a BA in European Philosophy and French Literary Theory- Poetry, but no job {EFF this economy! lol} hey, does that qualify as what they call a "loser"? I don't quite understand that word. Are there women (of any age over 18) who don't mind dating a complete virgin? Or is that out of the question? It is no ones business. That is between you and the person you are intimate with. Wait for the right person, not just sex. She will love it that you waited for someone special. Now, about finding her... I think you have to find a girl like you. Why not take Philosophy related class or go to poetry readings. Normal is relative & everyone can find someone compatible. Look for ways to change behaviors that put people off. Remember to go slowly & read the signs. If you are not getting any encouraging signs then back off. Don't mistake friendliness for romantic attraction. A girl will touch her hair, touch your hand or arm when talking to you or will extend eye contact. Maybe she smiles or laughs more. I used to work at the library and enjoyed the variety of people. Maybe you could work or volunteer there. You may even start a literary group meeting at the library. At least you could hang out there. Our library has concerts & plays on the grounds & a cafe so people can just pass time. Don't worry, just make small changes, relax & smile. I am sure there is a girl hoping for a guy like you. Try EFT, which will improve your self image, confidence & correct wrong thinking that holds us back. Go to mercola.com for free EFT training. eft.mercola.com/ Get some sunshine & exercise, eat well & think positive. You can change things around when you quit seeing yourself as a victim. I wish you well. My partner moved out after 21 yrs?My partner moved out , we've been together 21 yrs and it was probably the best thing for us but I did not want her to move out. I made the most money and she had crappy jobs and not consistent. So since she moved out we've been so called dating each other to see if we can make this work, after all we've been together a long time. We have been getting couples therapy since she moved out and it didnt work. I was seeing her 4 days a week but we still have separate households. She asked me the other day who is the beneficiary of my 401k and i told her none of her business, I have two adult from a straight marriage decades ago and as soon as she moved out I put their names on as beneficiaries. She went nuts on me and said I was with you for 21 yrs, blah blah blah and that she should be the beneficiary. I told her I hope to spend it all before I die and whoever is with me can enjoy it with me. Am I nuts or is this just all about the money and not getting back together for the right reasons. This is the one true time I am glad there is no gay marriage where I live. I am feeling a little guilty though not putting her down as the beneficiary but yet I want to protect myself from wrong reasons also. What do you think. If we were hetero married or gay married in a legal state I could see handing half of it over to her, she knows the laws so hasn't asked me for half of it while I'm alive, what do you think? I think it sucks that you're concentrating on money of all things. For 21 years she had financial stability with you, you guys aren't young and she's facing the possibility of having to start again on what sound like relatively little, its understandable that she might freak out. It doesn't mean its all she cares about. If I was in your position I'd be compelled to protect her financially regardless of whether you got back together or not, at one time the money was viewed as yours jointly - it would feel dishonest to change position. Perhaps you should explore this idea with her, I'm not saying actually do it, you know her I don't, but see if anything changes if you verbalise it like that, if she feels she could be supported either way and she's still working with you to try and repair the relationship you know her hearts in the right place. Tell me about bankruptcy laws? What changed with the changes?I You will need to read all this to see what was done to me. I am female. Christian, fundamentalist. a ppear very white. Hetero. It is relative. I have it, but it is relative to my problems. I have health problems, but was able to work. I have always had to work at being healthy. Have to keep my weight down. I am talking of me. I do not want to be told how others are, I am me. I need money for diet, health care. I have none. Going to the state for help, ends up in my being trashed. Always.I have suffered grave injuries at the hands of states discrimination and abuse. I must take medication at times due to the abuse of authorities and discrimination. I have no mental illness that is inborn. I have symp;toms of ptst, due to abuse not by my parents. never filed bankruptcy before, never contemplated it ever seriously. Know nothing, knew nothing. I really did save 10,000 cash when I was younger, no dependents, and pay down on my auto and house, bought new furniture. Had hardly any bills and perfect credit. I then made some more bills, manageable because I had a good paying job. After spending a lot of my savings on the dps and finding I was ripped off, I obtained more credit No problem. I am making good money in a career highly employable. Always have a job. I did then get some cash a couple of times from a creditor. I am working full time. I asked creditors to STOP sending me blank checks, and offers for more credit , I asked this more than once. I run into serious job discrimination. Harassment, slander. I left my long term employer after her asking me to sign lies, saying I did things I did not do. Rec. a major attitude adjustment. Then I lose my three wks vac, all raises, my two weeks sick leave. Cannot get work any where locally. I went to the city to work, told I had the job, told I was doing great, old emp. appears, they even give me a ticket, singled out. My auto crashed into, have to rent an auto. Harassed greatly because I go get my grandson, and we have some fun together while I am off. I used credit. I am getting a great new job which pays twice as much as the old.Go work there, in a rented car. Do great. Great. Then I am told because I do not want to work with someone, I can not transfer to another dept. I can go work in their ltc. I refuse. Take another job. Blah. I ended up deciding to move out of state, sell my home. They ran my ad in paper so that nothing sold. Had to give most of my things away, even furn. I bought new. Paid cash for my furniture, not credit cards. My dps were cash, not credit cards. I have been living on credit. Barely made anything on my home. I called here, talked to nurses on the floor and they said come on. No problem. More than one. I have disposed of my pets, all but what I could mail, and bring in the car. Happy to relocate be near my only dtr. Happy to get the rest of my degree, workin a hospital. Get here. I am losing wt. Gained some due to stress. Have quit smoking. Have problem sleeping off and on. I am happy. Going to gym, looking for church, actually started going to one Different denomination. Cannot go to the old one. Had my name removed from their church. Want a change. On unemployment. Kept my bills pd up for four months. Cannot get work any where. I took a review online before moving here, although it was not required. I took CEUs. I went to seminars. I studied. I was up todate any way. The job I had before was not assisted living. We handled about 30 pts one nurse, doing dressings, IVs, pics, etc., I did that for years, emergencies. The whole bit but for gunshot wounds, or fresh car wrecks. I cannot get work in nursing any where. Nothing, not in clinics nothing. Even worse, I cannot get any other kind of work. I take ACLS Pals, at great expense. I take testing for college hours My brain is working. The ACLS , Pals was like a good BLS except I got to do the airway thingie, put one in. We covered more meds. Open book. I did not use my book for all that. This was expensive, credit. I had to buy some tires. blah blah. Stringing me along, just around the corner, job. Good pay. No work. Finally, my money is gone. Credit gone. Creditors know. they know I am not working. Do not terminate my credit. I cannot get work. I cannot pay my bills. I went to consumer credit. Said a lost cause. My health starts slipping. I did not start smoking. I cannot carry weight. It kills me, and I do not get crabby when I eat right. I began going to gym here. Paid a membership. Harassed at the gym, told to get lost more or less. I was not hurting myself. I look about 15 yrs younger without this wt. I function very well. Devastated. I have given up my home, spent all that money, now my health is slipping. Told I do not have HIV. Then to show I am serious about working, I take the only two jobs I am offered. Nothing like nursing in any way. Hurt me really bad, as if designed to inflict pain, injury. Have to qu huh